Back over daddy's knee

«Okay so I get that there are 2 guys in the video, but what exactly makes it "gay" ? Only nudity is the spanked having his pants down, there's no sex or even excessive touching rubbing or whatnot and the spanked is obviously much older ... like do some really think that just cuz a little is spanked by someone of the same gender it makes them gay ? I feel that one can go out and sleep with a girl and come back to spanking without it being a question of sexuality non? Like I'm a little I'm hetero as in I'm not at all attracted to men, but it doesn't bother me to have a guy take the role of caregiver and spamk me bath me or change me
Like in a regular family would a father be gay for spanking his son?
Isn't sexuality needing of sex to actually be determined? And can people really be so insecure that they couldn't have a man touch them without it being a question of their orientation?
Like obviously this would appeal to gay guys but there's no sex the one being spanked isn't even hard (can't say for the spanker) aha iunno it's 2 men but I don't see it necessarily being gay just life within the style non?»